PARENTING TIPS
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Parenting
is a culture of family management
·
Right
parenting is hence right family management
·
It
is the right way of behavior in the family context.
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Avoid
conflict between spouses specially in front of your children
·
Keep
atmosphere of love in the family
·
Expressed
love is essential
·
Learn
to adjust and adapt
·
Avoid
rebel habits
·
See
that love is not to be hidden in your mind but to express and enjoy.
·
Promote
habit of appreciation.
·
Even
the small achievements of your child
should get appreciation
·
Smile
is a style of appreciation.
·
Keep
positive body language
·
Avoid
poisons of mind -
ANGRY-JEALOUS-HATRED- SADNESS-HOSTILITY
·
Appreciation
is a positive energy
·
Parental
participation in learning is essential
·
It
is your support in learning
·
You
may just be at the side of your child while learning- or may give
active support
·
It
is a mode of
moral support
·
Moral
support generates mental energy
·
Help
them to prepare a Home Study schedule
·
It
is nothing but a Time Table
·
It
helps your child to save time and energy
·
It
helps your child for TIME MANAGEMENT
·
Economy
in time is ensured
·
Help
them to develop learning skill- a)
Reading skill b) writing skill c) Listening skill d) Speaking skill
·
Skill
is practical wisdom
·
Knowledge
is conceptual power
·
Skill is support for action
·
Skill
and knowledge are interconnected
·
Skill
highly helps personality development
·
Child
should be assigned with duties – simple
duties- cleaning his room, arranging the books in an order etc.
·
This develops
sense of responsibility
·
Money should be spent only in accordance with your capacity
·
Economy
in expenditure is essential
·
Volume
of money spent alone for your child does not mean love.
·
The
purpose for which money spent also matters.
·
They should
know what is their role in the family.
·
They
should be provided with reasonable time for recreation
·
How
much time your child spent before the book is not the matter
·
Both
quality and quantity of learning is important
·
Hence
see the time spent and the quantity covered
·
Use
the stop watch and see the speed in reading
and writing
·
You
should have reasonable knowledge of their subjects and lessons.
·
Avoid
procrastination—It may be escapism.
·
Procrastination
is the habit of postponing your duty for a future time
·
Avoid
frequent advice
·
See
that your child will learn from your model
·
Not
from your advice
·
Avoid
sharing secrets in front your child
·
The
attitude of frequent scolding should be
avoided
·
Keep
a state of expectation and confidence
·
See
that frequent conflict in the family may cause for delinquency
·
Delinquency
is antisocial/non- ethical behavior in children
·
See
that parents are the first
counselors and not the professional
counselors
·
See
that problem children are the product of problem families