FAMILY PSYCHOLOGY
TIPS
MAKE YOUR FAMILY
A PLACE OF OPTIMUM PLEASURE
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Family is the
basic economic unit in a society
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It is a social entity
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It consists of people- Father mother and children
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Sometimes with
grandpa and grand ma
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There may be spouses without children
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Disharmony among family members is the root cause of conflict
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The reason may be financial or otherwise
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Since family is economic unit finance is the key factor
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Family should be financially sound enough to meet the essential needs
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Poor family management is the cause
of conflict.
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Family management consists of financial
management and otherwise
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Ensure that every family member is contributing
his/her best
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Family has both economic and cultural atmosphere
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Hence both financial and cultural atmosphere should be
maintained optimum
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Everyone is supposed to do his assumed role in the
family.
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If the wife is employed she has multiple role to
perform . She needs maximum support
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Good communication among the family members.
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Family should be financially sound
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Money should be spent where and when it is found necessary
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If there is enough money and not spending it may bring
disharmony
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Likewise There should have expressed love among the
family members
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Love and money are not supposed to keep in secret custody
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It is meant for frequent transactions
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Both money and love when released brings pleasure
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Avoid egocentrism-
that is selfishness- self-centered behaviour
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Enjoy healthy
tastes of other people
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Do not allow unhealthy tastes in the family.
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Smoking and
drinking alcohol is unhealthy tastes.
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Avoid poisons of mind- Angry, Sad, Hostility, Jealous etc.
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Salute each other with utmost care and love.
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Avoiding blaming attitude
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Avoid comparing attitude
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Develop the habit of appreciation
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Don’t be bored
with familiarity- “familiarity breeds contempt”
is not always right
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Instead learn
that proximity brings inter personal attraction- that is love.
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Eat food at a time - family together.
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Develop sense of empathy
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Find time for recreation session- Both Indoor and Outdoor
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Everyone should
decide that no negative comments will drop from his lips
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Utmost mental discipline
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Develop the habit of debate and discussion.
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Admit that freedom is the accommodation of interest
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i.e freedom of
one should not hurt the freedom of other.
· Family is a place of care and
share
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Learn to care
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Learn to share
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Avoid reserved state of habit
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Break the silence
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Develop State of humour in the family atmosphere
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Positive communication
avoids prejudice and misunderstanding
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Learn behavior fit for the place, person and situation
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Father, mother, husband , wife and children should know their respective
role.
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We love Flowers, Waterfalls, Wild animals, Pet dogs, Pussy
cats Books and novels, Stories and dramas, Smart phone and face book. But
forget to love living Man.
LEARN TO EXPRESS LOVE- LEARN TO ENJOY LOVE
Dr. O.V. Sreenivasan-9946826471
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